Are you looking for something new and exciting to entice your partner? Whether you want to work them into throes of desire before you get down and dirty or hope to leave them frustrated and wanting more, you can be sure that a strip tease will do the trick. The fun event can be as basic as removing your clothes in front of your partner, but for the best results, borrow tricks from the professionals in this form of art. Here is a step-by-step guide and some useful tips on how to do a striptease, from the best of the best.
Choosing an Outfit
The first step to how to do a striptease is deciding what you are going to remove from your body. You can choose to be yourself or opt to create a character for your performance. If you prefer the former, select colors and lacy garments or exotic lingerie you know your partner likes on you. Settle for items that are easy to peel off slowly and will add excitement to the process of teasing. For instance, a dress or skirt wins over pants or jeans, which are more difficult to remove in a sexy fashion. Wear stilettos and fish net stockings, do your hair in a 'come-to-me' style - pull your hair to one side to produce a sexy look and make your neck vulnerable.
If you prefer to create a stage persona for the fun of it, select a character that you think will turn your partner on. It could be anything from nurse, cocktail waitress or stewardess to glamour star Marilyn Monroe, whatever will make a greater impact on your partner. If you are without a clue, fish around in advance in order to get an idea of his fantasies, without giving your intentions away of course. Now go get that outfit.
Choosing the Music
Even if you are not sure on how to do a striptease, you surely know that slow and sensuous music is necessary to set the mood. If you have opted for a character role, then you might want to choose music that is appropriate for your character. Either way, make sure you have plenty of suitable tracks prepared in successive order on your music player of choice so as not to run out of music too early in the game.
Choosing the Moves
Your moves should first and foremost be based on the sexiest way to peel off the clothes that you are wearing. While you could settle for stopping at the underwear, most of the 'how to do a striptease' guides recommend that you remove everything but the stilettos - these you should keep on for the way they elongate your legs and create a sexy body image.
The entire striptease, from start to finish, can be done without props, but to bring in a few makes it interesting. However, you must be at ease with whatever you choose. The chair is arguably the easiest one, as several postures and moves can be executed with it, such as leaning on the back, sitting open or cross-legged, draping your body over the seat, etc. But do not limit yourself to it; you can also try something more exotic like pole-dancing or lap-dancing. You can rehearse your choreography beforehand, or simply improvise. Remember to maintain an inviting eye contact with your partner at all times.
Set a Sexy Scene
Choose a location in which you are sure not to be disturbed - be it your bedroom or living room, remember to close the drapes! Place any props you need in the room beforehand, as well as a comfortable chair on which your partner will be seated. Dim the lights low in order to create a moody atmosphere. Alternatively, kill the lights completely and go for several scented candles. A glass of wine is a nice way start the event.
Why a Striptease?
The
striptease should not only be for your partner's benefit, but also for your own sheer enjoyment. It is important to make it fun, for in doing so, you are bound to come off as even more tantalizing. The idea behind a
striptease is this: 'Look but do not touch!' Hence, your lover will be driven mad with desire. If you think your partner will not stick to this rule, you might want to tie his hands to the chair with scarves before you get started. This will also allow you to get up close and personal with your partner, without violating the boundaries. Smiles and laughter are usually a turn-on. So have fun!
